Weddings are very expensive. The average wedding costs about $20,000. This is a tremendous amount of money, and if you aren't married yet, want to be, and aren't saving for yours I would recommend opening a savings account now! Many of my friends got married while they were in college, and sometimes were not able to enjoy a large amount of financial support from their families. Here are some ways that they were able to save money on their weddings.

Unique Use of Wedding Gifts
Many of us have friends with incredibly unique skills. That might come in handy for a wedding. Maybe you have a friend who is really good at coordinating events, and instead of bringing you a wedding present they would be willing to act as your wedding planner. Many of us have friends that are brilliant photographers, and they might be happy to shoot your wedding for free. There are a few caveats, of course. We never want to take advantage of our friends, and use our special event as emotional blackmail to get them to do something they otherwise wouldn't. My photographer friends have, on occasion, complained to me about their inability to get their friends to even consider paying them for their work. With that in mind, your friends still might be willing to discount their skills. In the end the cost of putting unnecessary stress on relationships might make the cost of these services worth it.

Consolidate Venues
Is there a reason to rent both a church and a reception hall? Having the ceremony in the same place as the reception, and giving 30 minutes for the room to change over can save money. There are even venues that are designed specifically for this. I've had friends get married at a great venue with two outdoor pavilions, one for the ceremony and the other already set up for the reception so that there wasn't even a delay in serving people food after the bride and groom walked down the aisle.

Regular Suits and Dresses
This might not help the bride or groom save money, but their wedding party would be thankful. Why not allow the groomsmen to all wear black suits? A tux rental can run upwards of $100, and eventually every man will need a black suit. And what about the bridesmaids? Once the colors for the wedding have been picked why not let them pick dresses that fit the color? This will give them more freedom to pick a dress they might wear again, and even give your wedding a unique look and feel. Though, I would recommend letting the bride have final say on what dresses are worn.

Elope
Yes, you rob your friends and family of the joy of sharing in the public proclamation of your unending and eternal love, but you get the satisfaction of being married without any of the costs. This could have serious repercussions on family relations for years to come. This is the nuclear option of saving on a wedding.

None of us wants to have a wedding that looks cheap, but there are definitely ways to save on the big day. What are some of the tricks that you know of for having a less expensive wedding?

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